Fellas, Do You Know How to Recharge her Batteries?

Women these days are busier than ever before. Taking the time to relax is something that most women overlook which can reduce their hunger for sex. An online survey shows that 85 percent of women feel their partner does not take a romantic initiative. That is really sad guys! After giving it some thought and doing a little reading I have prepared a “blueprint” for you to help her relax, get her in the mood, and thus making you a romantic genius overnight.

One of the ways a woman gives herself a relaxing treat is by soaking in a long, hot bath, so you can take this opportunity to really give her a treat by preparing a bath for her. Of course, with other extra treats that only you can provide.

Exposing the Oral Orgasm: Play Prep and Tongue Techniques

Going down isn’t exactly an issue for Homeland Security, but it can be stressful for both partners if it’s not something you’ve tried for a while. According to the Kinsey Institute, this is a lot of you – barely more than half of all women aged 30-49 received oral sex from a male partner in the past year, and the numbers for women going down on their men aren’t much better…

So why all the fuss? Oral sex isn’t anything to shy away from! Talk to your wife – does giving or receiving oral sex make her feel anxious, scared or uncomfortable? What about you? Do you suffer from any feelings of inadequacy where your own oral foreplay skills are concerned? Well fret not. The basics of oral sex prep and technique are simple to master!

Foreplay for Him: Four Facts to Get Her Giving Back

Perhaps she’s been waiting for ages for something new and exciting to happen in bed, but if you put out the effort to do something different and she’s still struggling with the same predictable routine, your lack of interest will show. We know that seeing you enjoying yourself is a big part of getting your wife turned on, so how do you work up the confidence to get her to pleasure you in a way that really gets you going without hurting her ego?

Fingering for Life: Doing It, and Doing It Well

Learning a new sex skill is a lot like learning a new language. You can practice all you want alone in your room, but if you don’t have the chance to use all the new information, it will be lost in translation. You’ve gone to all the hard work of improving your finger fitness and learning a whole pile of new tips, tricks and techniques. Don’t let it all get away from you because you can keep it up!

Turning on her mind

Turning on her mind
By Gabrielle Moore

Gabrielle Moore is the author of Turn Her On Faster. Learn more at: http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/cintaseks

Turning on a woman emotionally is almost equivalent to turning you on physically. If a woman is in the right state of mind she can have much more enjoyable foreplay and, hence, equally terrific sex.

While arousing her body may seem like an easier, straightforward task (read more in the next chapter), stimulating her mind takes patience and creativity (and a little bit of corniness). Let’s call it sensuous mindplay.

Eye contact

Don’t forget: an unexpected “look” can build the anticipation for later. That wink is a boyish, coy way to captivate her. So can capturing her stare and giving her a genuine smile, stealing a look while she’s doing a chore or some other mundane task that wouldn’t usually warrant a sneak peek, or holding her gaze for longer than a split-second.

The lost art of kissing

What happened to kissing? Does it die out after you hear the minister say, “You may kiss your bride”? I have listened to so many of my married friends say, “I miss making out.” We yearn for no-strings-attached fooling around where we can make out without the immediate expectation of sex. There’s something thrilling about going at it like school kids on the couch or in the car (or, better yet, in a secret public place).

A few  tips for reviving your kissing techniques and bringing the fun back to old-school make-out sessions:

1- Kiss her and let your tongue touch the very edge of her lips. The soft sensations will drive her absolutely wild.


2- Use your lips to “nibble” her bottom lip or, if you’re verrrry careful, you can even use your teeth for a gentle bite. Just proceed with caution.


3- Kiss her with an open mouth and then pull away ever so slightly, allowing your tongues to continue dancing. Guys seem to really like this form of kissing.

For more tips on how to kiss her into bed and how to use your lips to make her beg you for wild sex, go to http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/cintaseks

Intimate talk

After years of marriage, talking openly and freely about your sexual needs can be an incredibly daunting exercise, especially if you’ve never done it. But if you want your wife to don a French maid outfit or get a little forceful with a leather whip, she’s never going to do it unless you just ask her. The same goes for her.

In other words, one discussion about innermost desires can snowball and affect your general outlook on your entire relationship!

Learn more about intimate talk and the bit “don’ts” that you must avoid if you want to get her into bed. Go to: http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/cintaseks

Dirty talk

The art of dirty talk is different from the aforementioned intimate talk – dirty talk is, well, more risqué.

A common misconception is that dirty talk has to be raunchy and vulgar, but it can take on a wide range of forms. It’s really about the type of couple you are and the terminology that will get you the best reaction (you don’t want to insult her if she’s embarrassed about you using the word p*ssy or c*ck).

This article is a brief extract from my hot “Turn Her On Faseter” e-course. To learn more about the full illustrated and audio versions of Turn Her On Faster go to: http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/cintaseks

Hottest places to surprise her with oral sex

Be spontaneous and surprise your girlfriend with oral sex when and where she least expects it. As it is more discreet than intercourse, oral sex is easier to put into practice, so you have total freedom to try it in the coolest places. By the way, make sure you check what’s legal where you are located! I don’t want you to get in trouble.

Let’s get started. 

Hooked on masturbation?

PEOPLE of all ages often feel more guilty and embarrassed about masturbation than about any other sexual activity, but it is an instinctive thing for people to do and not at all dirty or unnatural.

It is enjoyable, it's the way most boys and many girls first discover what sexual pleasure feels like and is a natural way to start learning about sexual responses.

All stories about masturbation being able to harm you physically are totally untrue. Nor can masturbation "spoil" you for sex with a partner.

Virtually all boys learn to masturbate as soon as they reach puberty if not before, and lots of girls do then or later.

Parents are often more worried about the idea of girls discovering how nice sex feels because they fear this will lead them to have sex with a boy and perhaps risk pregnancy earlier.

Understanding the G spot

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How to have quality sex

We have great expectations of our sex lives these days and worry when things don't seem to work out as hoped.

I can't just say, "Do this and do that, and I promise you great sex." I can suggest some things to try which please many people, but you are much better placed than I to say what in particular will give you pleasure.

Before I say any more, though, I do want to stress that you owe it to yourself to be immensely responsible about who you have sex with.

Best positions for satisfying sex

IF you're interested in learning about effective and satisfying positions for making love, first let me stress that it's not compulsory to make love in lots of different positions.

Some couples have a wonderful sex life never varying from the traditional missionary position. Don't get the idea that you have to be a contortionist to be a good lover. There is a lot of emphasis on variety in love-making these days, but it is meant to be enjoyable variety.

However, if your partner wants to experiment, do at least be willing to give it a try. If one of you favours a position the other isn't so keen on, you can easily make love for a while in one position, and then swap over to the other's favourite. Obviously if the man tends to climax in one position and the woman in another, it makes sense to choose the woman's favourite first.

Give your girl an orgasm

ANY considerate lover wants their partner to feel satisfied, but there are major differences between men's and women's orgasms.

If you are a guy wanting to be sure your partner reaches orgasm, be careful that you aren't putting pressure on your wife or girlfriend to enjoy her sex life as you think she ought to, rather than tuning in to her needs and desires.

Men and women do have quite different sexual needs and responses. Men usually rate intercourse as the most important activity and see making love as a sequence of the three Es - excitement, erection and ejaculation. Most men feel they've failed if their partner doesn't also climax, preferably during intercourse.

However, only around 50 per cent of women do usually reach orgasm when they make love and only about half of these usually do so during intercourse. So, if your partner is enjoying the total experience of having sex, if she is left feeling content and fulfilled, then there is no reason why either of you should feel she has a problem even if she doesn't always orgasm. She's quite normal.

Solving erection problems

IT is doubly frustrating for a man when he can't get or maintain a firm enough erection to make love.

Not only does he feel unfulfilled sexually but it is so maddening to know you want to make love, know you desire your partner, but find yourself unable to control the crucial bit of your body.

It's even worse when your partner feels very threatened by your not making love to her and starts accusing you of not loving her or of having an affair.

So one of the first steps you have to take to resolve this problem is to be honest with your partner.

I know it's hard for a man to admit he's experiencing erection problems but the overwhelming majority of women are very understanding - in fact, they are often relieved to discover that's what the problem is.

A guide to oral sex

Feel comfortable ... talk to your partner

IF you want to share oral sex with your partner but wonder how to go about it, you first need to be sure this is something you feel comfortable with and really want to do for your own pleasure as well as your partner's.

Don't feel pressured into trying it just because your partner likes the idea or says everyone does it.

Many couples find it one of the most pleasurable ways of giving and receiving sexual stimulation, but the relationship between you has to be very close and loving for this very intimate form of contact to feel right.

Reviving a man's sex drive

Hard knocks ... be careful during bedroom gymnastics

Most men who lose interest in sex are very embarrassed about it. They may try to tell themselves - and their partner - that it's normal to stop wanting to make love when you're 35 - or whatever milestone they've passed. That's rubbish - there are plenty of sexually active pensioners.

Or they say their partner is a sex maniac, though all she (or he) is wanting is to make love once or twice a week maybe - hardly wild. Or they say they've too many problems at work - which may be part of the reason but it doesn't mean that nothing can be done about it.

Jennifer Aniston Nude GQ Photos

So here you go, after yesterday post on Jennifer Aniston going naked for GQ, here are the actual photos from the magazine. Well she’s not showing the good stuff, but still we never had a Jennifer Aniston that naked.

If you need to know more (which I doubt) check out the post mentioned above. She’s talking about Brangelina and other boring stuff. Enjoy!

Paris Hilton Is Topless

Paris Hilton was on a yacht in her bikini and got so relaxed (or high) she took her top off. This is nothing new to Paris. She loves being naked and her entire career is based on her either being naked or getting banged.

The funniest part about these pics is that all the people with Paris are acting like it s a big deal to see her topless. I’ve seen the leaked videos that were found in Paris’s old storage unit. If you hang with Paris on any regular basis it is an event when she actually has clothes on.

Paris Hilton Topless

Sarah White Conducts Naked Therapy Sessions for Troubled New Yorkers

There’s one sure way to get a man to bare his soul – get naked. Sarah White, a 24-year-old psychology buff, conducts online therapy sessions in her birthday suit.

The naked therapist’s unique approach to helping people solve their issues has, she says, aroused interest from dozens of suffering New Yorkers.

“For men especially, who are less likely than women to go to therapy, it is more interesting, more enticing, more exciting,” said White. “It’s a more inspiring approach to therapy.”