Fellas, Do You Know How to Recharge her Batteries?

Women these days are busier than ever before. Taking the time to relax is something that most women overlook which can reduce their hunger for sex. An online survey shows that 85 percent of women feel their partner does not take a romantic initiative. That is really sad guys! After giving it some thought and doing a little reading I have prepared a “blueprint” for you to help her relax, get her in the mood, and thus making you a romantic genius overnight.

One of the ways a woman gives herself a relaxing treat is by soaking in a long, hot bath, so you can take this opportunity to really give her a treat by preparing a bath for her. Of course, with other extra treats that only you can provide.

How to Prepare a Proper Bath for Her

Sorry guys, a bath is not just filling the tub with hot water and pouring some bubble bath solution in it. If you’re going to do this, do it well and create the right ambiance for her.

First, close the windows and blinds and submerge the whole bathroom in darkness. Next, light some candles. They can be scented or not depending on what you use for the  scented oil .

For example, if you are using vanilla oil on the oil diffuser, do not use strawberry scented candles as the heady, super sweet smells will most likely give you both a headache. Aim for one scent or use non-scented candles if you are going to burn scented oils.

Fellas, don’t scrimp (be cheap) with the candles. The more, the merrier!

Next, put on some soothing music and make sure it’s not too loud or too soft. To test this, turn the music on and go into the bathroom and close the door a bit. Check if the music level is just right.

Next, make sure everything you need is within reach. It’s not good if you break the sensual massage all the time by running out of the bathroom! Plus, it’s not good for the overall warm temperature in the bathroom. Just put everything you need on a tray and set this on the toilet or on a small chair.

Don’t forget a few edible treats. A glass of wine or champagne and a platter of crackers and cheese or strawberries are sexy and will help you both last long during the sensual massage.

Sensual Massage Moves to the Bath

For starters, let her soak in the bath for about 5 to 10 minutes just to loosen her tight muscles and wracked nerves. Don’t join her in the bath just yet.
Start sensually massaging her while you’re still outside the tub. Sit on the edge or pull up a chair and use a wooden massage roller and move this along her body.

You can also position yourself at the top edge of the tub so you can massage her head. Slip your hands under her shoulders and then draw them up and out. A variation of this step is to pull your hands along the underside of the head, with your fingers against the back of the neck. Personally, I find the head massage extremely relaxing. Feel free to shampoo her hair too. The pressure of your hands on her scalp in combination with the soft suds of the shampoo will feel great. Besides, this is the beauty of a sensual massage in the bathroom, no cares for the all the water and soap that might spill on the floor.

Now, without breaking your massage strokes, climb into the bathtub and join her. Sit behind her with her back to yours (sort of like spooning). Start massaging her shoulders and work your way to her lower back.  Now comes the best part… massaging her front.

Start by reaching over and cupping her breasts (gently). You can use the soap suds or better yet, put more soap gel on your hands and start massaging her breasts as if you were trying to create a lot of lather.

Tease her by massaging her breasts, moving to her shoulders, going back to her breasts, going down and rubbing her stomach, back to hear breasts again. Each time, be a bit more daring and go lower and lower her front. For instance, just massage or clean her belly button with your finger and then go back to her breasts before going lower.

As a climax to this hot tub sensual massage, you may go ahead and rub her thighs getting closer to her sweet spot. You can tease her by gently insert your finger. Remember, this should be part of the sensual massage and should not be seen as the sexual act itself so be gentle . The objective is not to make her climax but to simply  connect with that special place as well. Not only will her batteries be recharged, she will be yearning for some of your lovin’.  Have fun, Enjoy &  Good luck!