5 Moves Women Love In Bed, But Can Be Too Afraid To Ask For

I’ve never been afraid to ask for what I want in bed. I guess because during my teenage years I figured out I was/am a perv and I just owned it. But in my decade-plus of hooking up with dudes, I’ve come to see being clear about what I want is a bit rare: Guys have told me other women become self-conscious when asking for something risqué or kinky.

So, I’m going to help you out, boys. Here are some things your lady might want, but she’s too self-conscious to ask for. Don’t pressure anything, of course — but if you offer, you may be pleasantly surprised at how enthusiastically she accepts ...

Top 5 Flirting Techniques and the Fantasies They Create in Men's Minds

Sorry ladies, but when a guy first approaches you, he’s not thinking you look funny or intelligent – he’s approaching you because he wants to see your clothes on his bedroom floor. Guys initially think with their "little heads," which are completely controlled by sexual desire and will fall for the simplest flirtatious sexual innuendo.

Sex and Relationships

An Indian was asked the difference between Indian and American movies. He said, “In Indian movies, a boy meets girl. The next scene they are singing and dancing. In American movies, a boy meets girl. The next scene, they are in bed having sex.”

Bait, Hook, and Reel Them In

Flirting, at it’s most basic is a way to break the ice and meet a potential boyfriend (or booty call) when you’re out with the girls.  In most cases flirting is the only way to open the door to a romantic relationship with that hottie you spotted across the room. For this reason flirting is a very important skill that all women must acquire and learn how to draw the thin line between sexy & skanky.

The dark side of Paris Hilton: Heiress transforms for kinky S&M shoot

She rarely strays from her trademark Barbie girl look that comes complete with a pink convertible Bentley.

So Paris Hilton appeared almost unrecognisable as she posed in all black leather get-ups for a dark, risqué photo-shoot for V Magazine. 

The 30-year-old heiress displayed a blunt fringe and smoky eyes as she showed of her enviable body in the black and white shots.

Men want cuddles too, says survey

IT is said men think about sex every seven seconds. But it seems what they really want is a cuddle.

A survey conducted by the Kinsey Institute, Indiana University, of couples from across the globe has found that hugs and kisses are crucial to a man's happiness, while women are the ones more interested in sex.

More than 1000 couples were surveyed with an even amount from the United States, Brazil, Germany, Japan and Spain.

The couples were together for an average of 25 years and were 40- to 70-year-old men and their female partners, either married or living together for a minimum of one year.

The men and women answered gender-specific questionnaires and were assured that their responses would not be shared with their partner.

The researchers found men who frequently kissed and cuddled their wives and girlfriends were three times as satisfied as those who spent less time snuggling.

Women - commonly assumed to be more tactile - said shows of affection had very little impact on their happiness.

Julia Heiman, director of The Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction and lead author of the article said men did report more relationship happiness in later years, whereas for women, their sexual satisfaction increased over time.

Women who had been with their partner for less than 15 years were less likely to report sexual satisfaction, but after 15 years, the percentage went up significantly.

"Possibly, women become more satisfied over time because their expectations change, or life changes with the children grown," Heiman said.

"On the other hand, those who weren't so happy sexually might not be married so long."

Seduction Secrets: What Men Find Sexy In Women

Men instinctively know a sexy woman when they see one, but what is it about a hot woman that oozes allure? These experts tell all about what's sexy to the male brain.

Dirty Talk: The Art of Talking Dirty In Bed

Want to make your sex life even hotter? Spice things up by talking dirty to him!

Whether you're naughty or nice, talking dirty is one of the best tricks to heating things up in the bedroom. Check out this guide to dirty talking and learn how to speak the language of lust with sexy confidence.

What's Really Going On Inside Other Couples' Bedroom

If there's one thing about steamy movies, it's that the sex is always perfect, raunchy and orgasmic. In real life, things are more down-to-earth -- this we intuitively know, but still we can't help but compare notes with reel-life sex.